--- title: "ADHD and Autism: How to Overcome Task Initiation Difficulties" description: Struggling to get started? 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You might even want to do it. You've thought about it, planned it, and reminded yourself several times. Yet somehow, you still haven't started. Maybe the laundry is piling up, the email is still unanswered, or the project you were looking forward to remains untouched. You might find yourself doing almost anything else except the task you were planning to. If this sounds familiar, you're not alone. For adults with ADHD, autism, or AuDHD, getting started can sometimes be much harder than knowing what needs to be done. This difficulty is often described as **task initiation**. **What can you do about it?** Understanding what makes starting difficult can help you find strategies that work with your brain rather than relying on willpower alone, which sadly, often leads to the three amigos: failure, guilt, and shame. ## Why Can Getting Started Be So Difficult? There isn't one explanation for difficulty starting tasks. Different people experience different barriers, and even the same person may experience different barriers depending on the task, environment, and how they're feeling. Here are a few things that often play into difficulty with task initiation. ### Executive Function and ADHD Executive functions are the mental processes that help us manage goal-directed activities and emotional regulation. They include skills such as planning, prioritizing, organizing, managing attention, impulse control, and initiating tasks. For adults with ADHD, difficulties with these processes can make it challenging to move from intending to do something to actually doing it. You might: - Know what needs to be done but struggle to decide where to begin. - Feel overwhelmed by all the steps involved. - Have difficulty prioritizing one task over another. - Become distracted before you get started. - Find it difficult to begin tasks that are repetitive, uninteresting, or don't provide an immediate reward. This isn't necessarily a lack of motivation. From a neurological standpoint, wanting to do something and being able to do it are two different things. ### Autistic Inertia and Transitions Some autistic people describe an experience known as **autistic inertia**. This refers to difficulty moving from one state of activity to another. It can involve difficulty starting an activity, stopping one, or switching between activities. Research involving autistic adults has explored these experiences directly. In a 2021 qualitative study of 32 autistic adults, participants described difficulties initiating everyday activities, even when it was something they wanted to do. Participants also described how support, accommodations, and taking time to clearly explain and ease into transitions could make action easier, while stress and mental health difficulties, even alarms, lists, and reminders could make it harder. A later study of 24 autistic adults explored both the challenges and potential benefits of inertia. Participants described how difficult transitions could be, but also how remaining deeply engaged in an activity could be enjoyable and productive, but sometimes come with regulatory difficulties like missing meals, sleep, or deadlines. These findings are important because they challenge the assumption that someone who isn't starting a task simply needs more motivation or discipline. ### When ADHD and Autism Overlap For people with AuDHD, task initiation may involve a combination of these experiences. For example, you might struggle to organize the steps of a task while also finding it difficult to transition away from what you're currently doing. You might feel overwhelmed by competing priorities, yet become deeply absorbed in something that captures your interest. There isn't one universal AuDHD experience. The important thing is to identify what is getting in the way for you. ## 8 Practical Strategies for Getting Started The goal isn't to force yourself to work harder. It's to reduce the barriers between deciding to do something and taking the first step. These strategies are practical ideas to experiment with. You don't need to use all of them, and not every strategy will work for every person. ### 1. Identify What's Actually Stopping You Before trying to motivate yourself, pause and consider what is making the task difficult. Ask yourself: - Do I know exactly what needs to be done? - Am I overwhelmed by the number of steps? - Am I unsure where to begin? - Am I having difficulty switching away from something else? - Is the task unpleasant, boring, or emotionally uncomfortable? - Am I tired, stressed, or overstimulated? Different barriers call for different solutions. If you don't know where to begin, you may need clarity. If you're struggling to transition, you may need help ramping down and changing activities. If you're exhausted, you may need rest rather than another productivity technique. ### 2. Make the First Step Smaller and More Concrete Sometimes a task feels too large because we're thinking about the entire thing rather than the action required to begin. Instead of writing "clean the kitchen" on your to-do list, identify one physical action: - Put one plate in the dishwasher. - Clear one section of the counter. - Take the rubbish bag out of the bin. The aim isn't necessarily to finish the task. It's to make the starting point clear and manageable. Try asking yourself: **What's the smallest physical action I can take right now?** For some people, breaking a task down into smaller steps is helpful. For others, an extensive list of steps can become another source of overwhelm. Experiment with the amount of detail that helps you rather than hinders you. A **free** tool that can help with breaking tasks into smaller steps is [**Goblin Tools' Magic ToDo**](https://goblin.tools/ToDo) tool, a web app specifically designed for individuals who struggle with task initiation. ### 3. Use an External Cue Sometimes, waiting until you feel ready to begin doesn't work very well. An external cue can help turn an intention into a specific action. For example: - When I finish breakfast, I'll take my medication. - After I make my coffee, I'll open the document. - When my scheduled reminder goes off, I'll put on my walking shoes. You can also use visual reminders, alarms, calendars, or objects placed somewhere you'll notice them. The idea is to reduce the number of decisions you need to make when it's time to start. ### 4. Make Transitions Easier If moving from one activity to another is particularly difficult, try creating a transition routine. You might: - Set a reminder a few minutes before you need to switch activities. - Write down where you left off so you can return to it later. - Prepare the materials you'll need for the next activity. - Use a short transition activity, such as getting a drink or stretching. - Give yourself a little time between activities instead of expecting an immediate switch. For example, if you need to stop working on a hobby and prepare dinner, you could set a reminder, put your materials away, and take a few minutes to reset before entering the kitchen. The transition itself becomes part of the plan, rather than something you expect yourself to do automatically. ### 5. Change Your Environment Sometimes the environment makes starting harder than it needs to be. Consider whether you can reduce the friction involved in beginning. - Put frequently used items somewhere easy to reach. - Prepare materials ahead of time. - Reduce unnecessary noise or visual distractions. - Keep your workspace organized in a way that makes sense to you. - Use a dedicated location for activities you regularly struggle to start. For example, if you want to exercise in the morning, laying out your clothes and shoes the night before removes a few decisions from the process. Small environmental changes can make the first step easier to access. ### 6. Try Working Alongside Someone Else Some people find it easier to begin and continue a task when another person is present. This is often called **body doubling**. The other person doesn't necessarily need to help with the task. They might simply work on something of their own while you work alongside them. You could: - Work in the same room as a friend or family member. - Arrange a virtual coworking session. - Join a quiet study or work session. - Ask someone to sit with you while you begin a difficult task. If you don't mind virtual body doubling with someone new, [Focusmate](https://www.focusmate.com) is a free platform that allows you to book 3 body doubling sessions per week. You and your body double work alongside each other, no chatting, for 25, 50, or 75min. A great way to have a quiet work session with the added accountability of body doubling. This isn't a guaranteed solution, but it may provide a helpful sense of structure, accountability, or external support. ### 7. Work With Your Interests Tasks that are interesting, meaningful, or rewarding can sometimes be easier to approach than tasks that feel repetitive or disconnected from your interests. Where possible, experiment with making an activity more engaging. For example: - Listen to music while doing household chores. - Turn a repetitive and boring task into a personal challenge. - Pair an unpleasant activity with something enjoyable. - Connect the task to a goal or outcome that matters to you. You might not be able to make every task interesting, but you may be able to make it more approachable. ### 8. Check Your Energy Before Pushing Yourself Difficulty getting started isn't always an executive-function problem. Your physical and emotional state matters, too. Stress, poor sleep, sensory overload, anxiety, and burnout can all affect your ability to manage everyday activities. Before pushing yourself to do more, consider whether you have the energy and capacity available. Sometimes the most useful next step is: - Taking a short break. - Eating something or drinking water. - Moving to a quieter environment. - Reducing the demands of the task. - Asking for help. - Giving yourself permission to rest. For some people with ADHD and/or autism, it can be difficult to identify how they are feeling, known as alexatxymia. [Animi](https://www.animiapp.com) is a free app for iOS and on the Google Play Store that is designed for people who experience alexatxymia. Many have stated that using this app has helped to improve alexatxymia and emotional awareness. Rest isn't a failure of productivity. Recognizing when you need it is part of understanding your own needs. ## What If None of These Strategies Work? It's easy to become frustrated when you've tried several strategies and still find yourself stuck. But a strategy not working doesn't mean you've failed. It may mean that it doesn't address the particular barrier you're experiencing. For example, breaking a task into smaller steps may help when the task feels overwhelming, but it may not help much when the main difficulty is transitioning away from another activity. If task initiation difficulties are significantly affecting your everyday life, it may be worth discussing them with a qualified healthcare professional. Support may include ADHD or autism-informed therapy, occupational therapy, psychological treatment, or other individualized approaches. The aim isn't to find a trick that makes every task easy. It's to understand your needs and develop systems that make everyday life more manageable. ## You Are Not the Problem Sometimes what looks like procrastination or a lack of motivation is actually your brain and body responding to something that makes getting started difficult. In other words, it may not be a personality problem, but your body and brain's way of letting you know that something is off. It could be too much stimulation, too many demands, uncertainty, or simply feeling overwhelmed. Instead of criticizing yourself, try asking: **What is making this difficult for me right now, and what do I need to make it easier?** That small change in perspective can open the door to a more helpful approach—one built around understanding, experimentation, and self-compassion. You don't have to overhaul your entire routine today. 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